It's Easier to Attract a Goodlooking Woman Than an Average Looking Woman

Let's get something out of the way fast. Unlike what the media wants you to think, beautiful women are not alone sitting in their apartments at night because men are too scared to ask them out. The fact is good looking women are hit on every day. You're now going, huh, isn't the title here "It's Easier to Attract a Good looking Woman Than an Average Looking Woman"? Yeah, it is, I just wanted to start off with some reality. Honestly, though, it is actually easier attracting better looking women then average looking ones.

To begin with, a higher percentage of good looking women have more confidence in themselves than average looking women in the sense that they do not need to be with a good-looking and/or wealthy man as much to define them. The fact is a lot of them have been there, done that and don't need that any more for ego satisfaction or self definition while average looking women do. I'm not saying that good looking women won't reject you because your looks aren't good enough or the fact that you're not wealthy but the fact is, average looking women or below will probably reject you more for this than good looking women. The bottom line is, there are a lot of good looking women more open to things in a man just because they, to use a cliche, like their personality, find him interesting and like how he treats them because they've already experienced more things with men than the average looking woman.

Most men, including myself, are more motivated being around a good looking woman than an average one. It's like playing basketball with some really good players as opposed to some mediocre ones. When you play with mediocre players, your skill level will not improve. When you play better players, your skill level will eventually improve. Well when you start going out with better looking women your confidence level will improve and most women are attracted to confidence, but not overbearingly so. I know that when I was younger, if I didn't look at a woman like she was the most gorgeous thing I ever saw, my face didn't beam and I got a bit nervous asking them out and a lot of the time, despite my better than average looks, they'd hem and haw and make an excuse. On the other hand, when I approached a good looking woman, my face would beam and I'd feel more relaxed and most of the time, I'd get dates with them.

Here's the main thing to remember. Yes, you will be rejected by good looking women but it won't bother your self esteem as much as being rejected by an average looking woman or below. Remember the old saying "I'd rather be rich and miserable, then be poor and miserable". After a while, the law of averages says, a good looking woman will say, yes. The chances are, you'll probably be nervous or try to overdo things on your first date and she won't go out with you again. So you try again with someone else and so on, till your confidence level goes up to the sense that you don't overdo things, and you've gotten a second date. It's like playing with basketball players who are better than you. At first when you play, you may be feeling really unconfident and out of their league but after a few times, you'll find that your skill level has increased so you now are on the same playing field.

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